fixing an unlikely crash bug in dict resizing, SF
bug 1456209.

The rest of rev 46589 changes whether Python suppresses
exceptions during some dict-related comparisons.  While I
think that's a good idea, it does change visible behavior at
times, and there was already some complaining about that on
the trunk.  Not a good idea for backporting.  The part of
46589 checked in here can at worst stop segfaults, and I doubt
anyone will gripe about that ;-)