Fixed #14477 -- Corrects several instances of "add" and "remove" m2m_changed signal actions not having been updated to "pre_add", "post_add", etc. Thanks to slink and andrews for reporting several instances of it, and andrews for the draft patch.

git-svn-id: http://code.djangoproject.com/svn/django/trunk@14304 bcc190cf-cafb-0310-a4f2-bffc1f526a37